What am I doing wrong?
I just get frustrated when online dating doesn't work for me. I write to guys, but never get a response. I'm not talking about writing 2-3 and not getting a response. Over a 2 year period I might have written about 50 guys. I only got a few replies. I didn't email/talk on the phone for more than a few days before they gave up. I didn't meet any of them in person.
I hate when guys asked why I haven't been in relationships. I'm not in a relationship because I get rejected all the time. I don't want to tell them that because it seems like my confidence is low, but its the truth. They will think something is wrong with me because I'm 31 and I've never had a serious relationship.
I wrote to about 15 guys within the past few months. I talked to one of them for 3 days. We were going to meet on the 3rd day but he said we weren't right for each other so we stopped talking. I talked to another guy for about 2 weeks. We were suppose to meet, but he came up with an excuse. Then he just stopped talking all at once. He was just playing games. Then another guy wrote back and asked how I was. I answered and he never wrote back. I didn't even get a response from the others.
I want a guy who will pursue me. I'm the one who always contacts them. I don't get many emails from men.
Am I writing to the wrong guys?
Are my emails boring? I try to mention something from their profile and mention some of our common interests and why I wrote to them.
Am I ugly?
Am I too old?
Can guys sense desperation?
Am I too fat?
Am I boring?
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I always hope that the right guy would overlook my many short comings. But will they? I know I don't have my life together, but are there any men who look at a person for who they are? I'm a good person. I think I have a good personality.
Maybe I am a loser.
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Yesterday I answered a Craigslist ad. I try to stay away from Craigslist because of its bad reputation. But I figured I'd just try. There was a guy in my area looking for a BBW. He was a cute guy and he thinks BBW is attractive.
Its still early, but I haven't heard from him yet.